We didn’t talk about provocative foods in this week’s episode, but this was my favorite find for that particular topic. Be sure to check out penispans.com for lots of fun ideas! And have a happy weekend! ~A
Anonymous asked: Do you think that your husbands should ask/tell their wives before they masturbate, and alternatively, should you ask/tell them? What about masturbation toys. Are they ok for both parties?
It’s difficult to have a single answer to this. We all would say that honesty in your marriage is essential, but how that plays out with regard to masturbation may vary from couple to couple. One couple may have a standing rule that says if the other is unavailable, have at it. Another may say to check in first. Another may have a flat out no stance. The most important thing is to talk to your spouse, tell them what you think and ask what they think.
As for toys, they can be fun regardless of your sex. This is another area where you will want to check with your spouse. They may not appreciate something that is life-like, or they may not care. They may think it’s okay for use when they’re not around, but don’t want them introduced into mutual love-making. The only way to know is to ask.
If there’s anything we can encourage, it’s honesty and openness. Things that are hidden probably won’t stay hidden forever and you can end up with unnecessarily hurt feelings by not being honest. Discussions about masturbation can be a little awkward, but not as awkward as finding out your spouse has been hiding something from you.